The letter of 1 Thess is this really beautiful display of affection from Paul to young believers in Thessalonica. What stands out to me in this letter is his heart for discipleship, the way he puts his whole heart into those he is leading and his primary concern for them is their faith, not necessarily that they are safe and comfortable physically but their faith. Which is significant in light of the fact that these young believers are in fact experiencing some real persecution. ANother thing you don’t want to miss is the fact that hope in the second coming is directly connected with lifestyle. These are new Believers that Paul is addressing, his heart for them is to stand firm in their faith, to abound in love for one another and for all, and a motivation for living this way is the hope of Christ’s return! Hope in his return should effect how we live!
I wanted to make sure I at least touche on the main idea of the book before I wrote the rest. A major lifestyle issue that Paul is addressing in 1Thess is their sex ethic. They are young believers who are living in the midst of a highly sexed culture. They are surrounded by it and it is very much an accepted part of their culture, much like our today. So I thought I would post my lecture notes on this particular subject for those of you that have questions on what a Christian sex ethic should like? Does the Bible really have anything to say to this, does the Bible really indicate that its wrong to go too far sexually? If these questions interest you feel free to read my notes and get a taste of the teaching the students got on this:
Lifestyle: Sex ethic
Historical Background:
Dionysius is a prevalent cult in Thessalonica
Sex was a part of cultic worship
Sex outside of marriage was not frowned upon, rather expected
Expected that men would have sex with prostitutes, female slaves, mistresses. “ Mistresses we keep for our pleasure, concubines for our day-to-day physical well-being, and wives to bear us legitimate children and to serve as trustworthy guardians over our households.†Demonsthenes 384-322 BC
Dualism- Body is bad, Spirit is good
Examine:
They know the instructions given them
This is the will of God, their sanctification
Meaning? God’s grace working in them to make them more like Jesus.
Imply? You want to know God;s will for your life? Don’t sin. Don’t sleep with your boyfriend or girlfriend, become more like Jesus. These are not just suggestions for how to live a better life, this is God’s will
Abstain from fornication
Meaning? Any sexual sin (Spiros Zodhiates)
Imply? Adultery, temple prostitution, drunken orgies, Dionyses festivals, etc
Today? Adultery, pornography, lust, making out, sex before marriage, these are sexual sins and this is what the Bible is speaking against!
Know how to control your own body in holiness and honor not with lustful passion like the Gentiles that don’t know God.
Imply? Practice self-control as opposed to self-indulgence. You don’t have to let lustful passion control you, though that may have been how used to live, how everyone else around you is living, it may be celebrated in your culture, it may seem harmless but its not. Control your own body!
OR? Probably still struggling in this area, obviously this is a hard thing to walk away from especially if its all you know, and you have lived in indulgence most of your life and have not seen the need to practice restraint. But that doesn’t make it OK and Paul is telling them it needs to stop, and this is not just a suggestion this is being spoken on God’s authority, this is his will for them!
Don’t wrong or exploit a brother or sister in this matter, the Lord is an avenger in all these things
Imply? He is still talking about their sex ethic here, don’t wrong another brother or sister, don’t take advantage of them sexually, don’t exploit their innocence or their weakness, help each other out, this is what it means to abound in love for one another and for all!
Imply? God cares about this and will bring his justice to this. I think we could go as far as to say he hates seeing his children taken advantage of, exploited, defrauded sexually, and especially by another believer, absolutely unacceptable!
TT: This is not OK to wrong or exploit another brother or sister sexually, God cares about it, this is not acceptable!
SA: Man I can get so passionate about this! This kind of behavior is absolutely not acceptable among Christians! And the reason I get so fired up about it is because it is happening all the time amongst Christians, and for the most part we don’t think its that big of a deal because everyone is doing it and lets be realistic can purity even be achieved? So what does it hurt if we make out a little, bit, if I flirt and lead someone on a little bit, if I get my needs met, I mean we didn’t have sex. NOT OK!!!! So what do I mean specifically by all this? We know that adultery and sex before marriage is not OK, we’ve pretty much all subscribed to that and are willing to stand up for that. But I’m talking about so much more that that. I’m saying its not OK to get yourselves turned on and make out, and assume God understands. Its not OK to try to turn a guy on just to make yourself feel sexy and powerful. Its not OK put yourself in situations where you know you’re going to get turned on and go too far! Its not OK to indulge in lustful passions. It’s not OK to look at pornography, that is definitely exploiting another person, and we are called to a much higher standard that that in Christianity. Why? For Christ’s sake. This is the will of God, our sanctification! I am not saying these things on my own authority, but on God’s authority!
They have been told this already and solemnly warned that God did not call them to impurity but to holiness
Imply? Paul is not telling them anything new, they know this already, and Paul didn’t tell them this lightly, he solemnly warned them. This is what God has called them to, to holiness!
Whoever rejects this, isn’t rejecting human authority but God’s, who gives the Holy Spirit
Imply? This isn’t merely suggestions or Paul’s personal soapbox, he is saying this on God’s authority!
The sin is only seen in its true light when it is seen as a preference for impurity rather than the Spirit who is Holy. “ANyone who carries on an act of impurity is not simply breaking a human code…He is sinning against the GOd who is present at that moment, against the One who continually gives the Spirit. The impure act is an act of despite against God’s good gift at the very moment it is being proffered†(The New International Commentary on the NT. The First and Second Epistles to the Thessalonians. Pg 126-127)
Proffered- to hold out something for acceptance.
My heart: My heart behind this is not to condemn, not to make you feel guilty for past mistakes, we all know that has been taken care of in the blood of Christ, there is no condemnation, my heart behind this is to solemnly warn you about you behave in the future. And to see that just like Paul I’m not saying this on my own authority, I’m saying this on God’s authority. You want to know God’s will for your life? It’s your sanctification. Well what does that really mean anyways? It at least means this, don’t sin sexually. God takes this seriously, it’s my heart that you would do the same. I realize that it is hard being single, I realize that it is hard to navigate through dating, how to walk that line between living in legalism and condemnation and abusing your freedom, I know this. But I want to get your attention. Girls: Hold on to your standard of integrity and purity, speak up if a guy you like is pushing the line, if he continues to push the line after having a serious talk about boundaries, I would say his character is questionable. In dating relationships, establish boundaries right away, and work together to maintain those. Guys: Control your own body with holiness and honor, not with lustful passions. Same goes for you, establish your boundaries early, get accountability, if you catch yourself trying to push beyond the established boundary, confess and stop it! This is not OK, that is exploiting your sister. I think it is just as hard for guys to stand up for their boundaries because girls push it and then laugh or giggle or taunt if they get uncomfortable, question that girls character, don’t put up with that. We are called to a higher standard as Christians, and just because a lot of Christians have lowered their standards doesn’t mean the standard has changed, we are to abstain from fornication, control our bodies with holiness and honor and not exploit our brothers and sisters!